Friday, January 16, 2009

2009 Invite Trends, hot off the press






While many of you were opening presents and celebrating the start of the new year, I scoured the latest industry cues and new releases for the 2009 Wedding Season.

My trends for 2009 invitations.

1. Use of Color- More and more couples are experimenting with bold, rich colors in their invitations. One way people are using color in their invitations is to match or complement the other decorations or themes in their wedding, such as their flowers or bridesmaids dresses. Don’t be afraid to be bold, especially if that matches your personality!

2. Motifs and Graphic Themes- Who says your invitation has to be just a bunch of words? Many couples incorporate a graphic motif to match the season, such as a flower for a spring wedding or a pine cone for a fall wedding. What’s the difference between motifs and themes? Motifs are generally one graphic or decorative element, where as themes are typically created from multiple motifs - butterflies + bees + toile pattern. Themes can also be created from breaking down a single motif into many parts - a blossoming branch = blossom + leaves + branches, which can be used collectively or separately throughout the design. Graphics can lend sentiment and character that your invitation would otherwise be missing. For example, if you met your fiancĂ© in a charming southern town while the magnolias were in bloom, perhaps a magnolia blossom would be the perfect theme for your wedding invitation.

3. Pockets

The popularity of pocket invitations is really becoming an established trend. These neat little packages that appeal to many brides because of a these key reasons.

Pockets eliminate the mess and clutter of those otherwise loose pieces that fall out of your envelope at random when your guests open your invitation. They keep all your accessory cards organized, and allow your invitation to be the primary focus of the package.
They are professionally designed and printed to coordinate with your wedding invitation. The alternative at-home printed accessory pieces rarely reflect the professional quality and cohesion, and can cheapen your invitation as a result. Brides have enough to stress about without having to worry about designing and printing matching driving directions, hotel accommodations, or map cards. That’s why more and more people are leaving it up to the pro’s by purchasing a pocket invite! They are unique and impressive. Regardless of how popular our pocket invitations are, it’s still not everyday that you get an invitation like this in the mail!

4. Map and Direction Cards
In this information age, there’s no excuse to leave your guests guessing about where the reception is in relation to the ceremony - or how to get to the hotel you recommended and negotiated that special rate for! Sure, some people have access to GPS Navigation, but why not take this opportunity to provide key information about parking, give them the best or most scenic route, and to point out some of the other cool areas in town? In our experience, direction cards are nice, but maps are even better.

5. Coordinating Pieces (Save the Dates, Wedding Programs, etc.)

More and more couples are striving to be “cohesive” in their communication and presentation with their guests by carrying the same theme or style through all of their wedding stationery. It indicates that you put thought in to every aspect and detail of your wedding, and believe us - people notice! You can take this as far as you want - from save the dates to invitations to programs, and even on in to the placecards, menus, and thank you notes!

6. Full Service Packages
Let’s face it - as a society we’re busier now than we’ve ever been. Some people find it a bit daunting to order their invitations, tie a bunch of ribbons/bows, address all the envelopes, find the right postage, stuff all the envelopes and seal them up, and finally to take them to the post office to be “hand canceled”. That’s why we’ve been offering more “complete service” packages to our customers. Of course we do the design and printing, but you can also elect to have your assembly completed, your envelopes addressed (in fonts and colors to match your invitations), and even have your invitations stuffed and mailed on your behalf. When you see your invitation, it’ll be when you get it in the mail. Whew! What a relief!

7. DIY and Partial DIY

Even in the light of our #6, there are always many creative and resourceful brides who just won’t be satisfied unless they design and/or put together their invitations themselves. But finding the right material (paper, ribbon, envelopes, etc...), printing, cutting, and assembling your invites is often far more difficult than even the most accomplished DIYers expect - and that’s why we’ve started to offer many of our own designs with a “You Assemble” or “DIY” option. It gives our brides the comfort of knowing that the design, print, and materials will be handled professionally, but the labor of assembling your invitations onto the pocket or base paper can save a little on cost and provide the satisfaction of “Doing It Yourself”. Don’t worry, you can still work with us so that the design of your invitation still comes from you, but at least it will be executed professionally. For those die-hard DIYers, we now offer many of our high quality papers, pockets, and adhesives in our Do It Yourself section. We offer Ribbon by the Spool, and even Wedding Program Kits.

8. Crystals & Embellishments

An increasing number of brides are adding glamour and pizzazz to their invitations by incorporating embellishments such as swarovski crystals or rhinestone buckles. High-end embellishments like starfish and sandollars can quickly take an invitation from impressive to extraordinary. Be aware that when you add these sort of embellishments, you often move yourself out of the realm of envelopes and in to boxes to house your invitations. Imagine how your guests will feel when they receive your invitation “gift box” in the mail! It will be a invitation most difficult to turn down! Boxes are definitely the case for sandollars, starfish, and many other major 3 dimensional items. But some crystals, depending on size, quantity, and placement can still be mailed in an inner/outer envelope set. You can designate your invitation as “non-machineable” and ask the Post Office to “hand cancel” the envelopes to help cut down on the impact their system has on sensitive mailing materials.

9. Monograms & Logos
Create your own logo and “brand” your wedding. Many couples ask us to create a stylized version of their initials or wedding date, which is a neat way to create a recognizable mark that can be used throughout their wedding stationery. Use it on your aisle runner, cake, bar, and even your dance floor!

10. One of a Kind

Couples are invariably interested in making their wedding day one to remember for themselves, their family, and friends - and that means offering unique experiences and memories for all. The wedding invitation is generally the first offering in that quest. If you send “just another invitation” you’re basically telling your guests this will be “just another wedding”. That’s why so many couples these days are in search of truly custom and unique wedding invitations.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year from The Social Butterfly!
Our New Year's Resolution!
To be the best wedding planner in the Northeast! (And your personal favorite)

With the start of every new year comes the typical list of resolutions. Now that you found your perfect mate, you can cross that off your list:)

Of course, you know face the challenges of finding the perfect location, dress, invitations, flowers, photographer...and the list goes on....

We now how important it is to create your own stylish celebration. After all, this is the biggest social affair of your life.

While some goals are lofty, and others are personal, my goal is simple.I want to help you plan your perfect wedding. I want to find those perfect details that make your wedding so very you!

What is your new year's resolution?

Monday, December 15, 2008

Do you dream of becoming a wedding designer?






For the aspiring wedding planners, you know who you are!:) Place this game at the top of your holiday gift list. Its at the top of my Christmas list, now I just have to get my 9 year old to share his DS with me! I wish they had this game years ago!


Description: A wedding may only take a simple "I do" and a kiss to seal, but the perfect one takes a lot of planning and the guidance of an expert. In Imagine Wedding Designer the player's goal is to become just such an expert as they make their way to the top of the wedding design business. Along the way they will get hands-on experience, designing every aspect of six wedding ceremonies for six very different brides, each with their own tastes and sense of style. From invitations and venues, to flowers, makeup and dresses you will plan it all. And eventually you will even create a custom wedding experience for your own bride character. Creating that one perfect day is never easy, but its what players strive for in Imagine Wedding Designer.
Key Game Features:
Manage the weddings of 6 different brides, each with their own personality and specific tastes.
Design the wedding invitation, choose the dress, veil, bouquet, and more. You can also choose the bride's hair and makeup, the location of the ceremony, and the music.
Choose who will be in the ceremony and select the outfits that will please the bride
Live the big day. Ensure everything goes smoothly and your bride is happy. If not, you may face some unexpected events during the ceremony.
Unlock new characters, clothing, and accessories with each "perfect" wedding that you design. Exchange the unlockables with your friends via the DS' WIFI connection.
Hope Santa still has room in his sleigh for this gift for me! What do you want for the holidays?

Sunday, December 7, 2008

My Destiny

I watch them. Out of the corner of my eye at the rehearsal dinner. The bride's grandparents. He looks at her adoringly, still holding out her chair for her as she sits down. She pats his hand when he talks. He visits the buffet line and brings her back a plate, knowing exactly what she wants. She feeds him a delicious piece of pastry from her fork. They pause. They kiss. I sigh.

I watch the young couple make a toast. The groom slips his hand around his fiancee's waist, she looks at him adoringly. She laughs at all his jokes. He pushes a stray hair back from her face.
Sometimes, you just know. You just know and you hope. But in this couple, I see that ease, that kindness, and I hope that in 25 years I am helping to plan their silver wedding anniversary. That years after that, they are like these grandparents. Love is enduring and kind, and a wedding is the ultimate place to see its many stages, its beauty.

Maybe this way I look at couples means it was my destiny to be a wedding planner and to celebrate such love in every bridal season. Love. The perfect touches, the sweetest gestures. A wedding and wedding planner that embraces that philosophy.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

It's begining to look a lot like Christmas







So maybe its just me, or maybe its all wedding planners, but I get a little carried away when decorating for the holidays. Today I wandered around the Boston Flower Mart for several hours waiting to be inspired for several upcoming events I am working on in December. Inspiration comes in many forms. For me, its means taking a piece of this, a piece of that and laying it all out and watching it come to life.


With two industrial carts full of supplies, inspired I was, in shades of chocolate, chatreuse, and crimson.


What inspires you?

Thursday, October 30, 2008

J Lo made it look so easy!

In the Wedding Planner that is. Many people thank my career is glamourous and easy. But it is HARD and I mean really hard to be a wedding planner. I am not even going to try and deny that. Is it fun? Yes. I love it. I am totally addicted. I am one of those planners that eats, sleeps, and dreams, weddings. I get up up in the morning and have all sorts of new ideas to share every day.

When I talk to a bride and I say, "I am so excited!" I am not kidding- I really am. I genuinely am excited and passionate about every wedding I work on. You have to have a passion for it. A passion for planning your own wedding does not mean you will have the passion to plan 15 weddings at the same time, with 15 different personalities, mothers of the bride, tastes, and styles. So I wish that there was a wedding tv show that showed what this job is really like. I think so many people would be surprised.Is it worth it? Absolutely!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Trash the dress?





Interesting idea... but what would Vera Wang think? Trash the Dress, you say? It's exactly what it sounds like -- following the blessed event, the bride straps on that gorgeous dress once again for a final farewell photo to the gown she spent a fortune to wear for one day only. We all know our daughters won't wear our dresses, so trashing the dress sounds like a great idea to me.

These so-called Trash the Dress photos have become all the rage with brides who want to add something unconventional to their wedding albums. And unconventional they are -- particularly the photo at right in which a bride has set her wedding gown aflame, a la Joan of Arc. This shot was taken by a photographer named John Michael Cooper, who coined the phrase Trash the Dress. If you want to see more of his edgy, arty wedding photography, check out his website, which chronicles his collection of Trash the Dress wedding photos. A recent bride of mine decided to trash her dress buy jumping in the pool with her new husband. Even better than that her whole family followed suit. What did you do with your dress?